The History and Meaning of a Sorority Lavalier

The ritual of lavaliering is rooted in Greek tradition and is an important part of both sorority and fraternity life in the United States. The lavalier has long been considered a fundamental right-of-passage for many college couples. Despite the ritual's relative lack of popularity, it still has special meaning for many long-term couples and is often seen as very romantic, exemplifying old-fashioned values.

If you're looking to learn more about the sorority lavalier and its meaning, continue reading.

The Greek Organization Lavalier Explained

Most major colleges across the United States offer the opportunity for students to join a Greek letter organization, known as a fraternity or sorority. Female undergrad college students join a sorority, while male undergrads join a fraternity. These organizations are akin to a family and are usually represented by Greek letters.

Each sorority and fraternity has its own set of traditions. One of longest-running traditions is known as lavaliering. The lavalier is an esteemed way for a collegiate couple to express commitment and love for one another.

The male partner presents his female love interest with a lavalier necklace featuring the Greek letters of his fraternity. The presentation of a lavalier necklace symbolizes a long-term commitment between the collegiate couple. The lavalier necklace and its pledge also gives the female partner honorary rights to the fraternity.

Lavaliering is an important step in showcasing a male's devotion to a fraternity. Essentially he is pledging both himself and his partner to the fraternity family. The lavalier is generally viewed as a lead-up to an engagement, much like a promise ring or other piece of jewelry.

The Lavalier Necklace

The necklace was popularized in early 1900 by Duchesse de la Valliere, a well-known mistress of King Louis XIV of France. The suspended pendant style of the necklace became incredibly famous during this time.

Today, lavalier medallions feature the fraternity's Greek letters. You may see lavaliers for fraternities like Sigma Chi, Kappa Sigma, Phi Delta Theta, Sigma Alpha Epsilon and others. Three Greek letter pendant typically hangs from a sterling silver or gold chain that rests along the woman's breastbone.

The Lavalier Ceremony

Many times, lavaliering is preceded by "pinning." The fraternity member gives his girlfriend a pin, which represents his commitment to her. Then, once the relationship becomes more serious, he will give her a lavalier.

The ceremony surrounding the presentation of a lavalier necklace is a big deal for most fraternities. The male must first request permission from his fraternity family to make a lavalier pledge to his love interest. Once this permission is granted, the ceremony will take place.

All the fraternity brothers gather to witness as the necklace is ceremoniously presented to the female.

The female sorority house also holds a special ceremony of its own to both announce and celebrate lavaliering. The sorority sisters gather in a circle and pass a lit candle around. Once the candle reaches the lavaliered sister, she will make her announcement and blow it out. The ceremony is a highly important part of the process, as being lavaliered is considered an act of grace by both the fraternity and sorority.

The Rules of Lavaliering

Basically, the lavalier is a well-known as a stepping stone between dating and the long-term commitment of engagement. If a male intends to offer a lavalier necklace to his partner, there can only be one woman he offers this necklace to. He cannot make a lavalier pledge to more than one woman.

The lavalier pledge must be kept a secret by the female until the candle tradition is held by her sorority house. Ultimately, lavaliered couples are expected to become engaged after the lavalier pledge.

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